Change Your Life, Part 3 of a 7 part series

by Dr. Bobbie Stevens on May 14, 2012

This week we move to the third step in the creative process for changing your life which is Acceptance.  Just to recap what we have done so far, first you read the Understanding Stress e book, then you listened to the 7 Steps Interview.

The next week you started getting clear about the one thing that you are choosing to create for yourself now.  We spent the week with the Clarity Step, getting as clear as you could about exactly what you are choosing to create.  Then last week I asked you to create three pictures in your mind that showed your choice a reality in your life.  That was the second step Visualization.

And the idea from the beginning is to write everything down and read it and/or visualize it every morning when you first wake up and then again in the evening right before going to sleep.

If you missed any of this just click on the earlier blogs explaining each in detail.

Now it is time to be sure you can accept this choice into your life.  You would think that would be the easiest step because who wouldn’t accept what they want?  Unfortunately, it is the most challenging for most people, because this is where all of our limiting beliefs come in.  We are not even aware of many of these beliefs because they have been programmed into our sub-conscious by people around us or the media and many times we have not made a conscious choice to accept them, but they are still there running our lives.

Actually we can have anything that we can accept, but most of us have lots of beliefs that block our ability to accept what we want in our lives.  That is why I said in the beginning of our experiment that it would be good if you chose something that you believed you could achieve within the next 6 months.

Beliefs are only information that we have accepted as true.  We actually make them up or accept them without much thought.  They are usually what the other people around us believe, but that does not make them true.  We can actually reject these limiting beliefs and create new ones that are more helpful in creating what we want.  However, this usually takes some time.

In order to change a belief we must first become conscious of the belief and make a conscious choice to change it.  So, what we need to do in this third step is bring to the conscious level any limiting beliefs that you may have.

Do you believe this process will work for you?  Do you believe that you can actually create whatever what you are choosing to create in the next 6 months?  Do you deserve it?  Will the manifestation of this choice create a problem?  Do you see anything that could be an insurmountable problem that you must face in order to create this choice?

After reading your choice morning and evening, ask yourself if you have any beliefs that are not in harmony with the creation this vision.  As any limiting beliefs come to mind write them down then consciously change them and write down the new belief that you want to replace it with.

If you are working with the UF stress relief process daily you are becoming more and more capable of becoming conscious of your limiting beliefs and more capable of understanding how they need to be changed.

Be sure to work with this step daily for the next week, then I will send you more information about how to work with the 4th step.

When you are totally successful with the acceptance step it is a done deal.  You know without a shadow of a doubt that your vision is taking form. However, we still need to work through the remaining steps.  So, until next week enjoy this wonderful process for changing your life.

 

 

 

 

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Changing Your Life, Part 2

by Dr. Bobbie Stevens on May 7, 2012

It is time now to begin working with the second step in the creative process to create what you want to create in your life now.  As I promised, I will be acting as your personal coach over the next 6 months to help you create one thing that you want now, so you can understand how the creative process works and how valuable this knowledge can be in creating the life you want for yourself.

Just to be sure we are all on the same page I will lay out what we have done so far.  The first step in changing your life was to read the Understanding Stress e book, then you listened to the 7 Steps Interview, so you were clear about how stress affects us and the relationship between stress and our ability to create the lives we want for ourselves.  And the process we can use to create whatever we want.

If you missed the 7 steps interview get it now by clicking here http://unlimitedfutures.org/steps-creative-process/

Next you wrote down the one thing you are choosing to create for yourself and are reading it when you first wake up in the morning and the last thing before you go to sleep at night.  You are also expanding your description of your creation as you get clearer.

The second step in the creative process is Visualization.  You need to be able to clearly see in your mind’s eye the manifestation of whatever you are creating.  Visualizing is just like day dreaming.  It is just using your imagination.  Einstein said that imagination is more important than knowledge.  So, just like professional athletes do, we are going to use our imagination to visualize what we are creating.

We want to start with creating 3 pictures of something that you will see when your choice is manifested.  Put yourself in the picture and imagine you experiencing whatever you are creating.  Use as many of your senses as possible to make it as real as possible.  This is an experience that you are having.  We must first live the experience in our minds.  That creates a form for the law of attraction to fill with the necessary energy for it to manifest in the material world.

As an example, if you were creating a new home for yourself, you could see the surroundings, imagine what it looks like, and also put in some sounds and smells.  Walk inside, what is the feeling you get as you enter?  What is the view like?  Walk into the different rooms, see the furniture and the décor, how does it look, feel, smell?  Maybe there are some fresh baked cookies in the kitchen that you can smell and even taste.  Get comfortable on the sofa or the bed or in your favorite chair.

You get the idea; just let your mind wonder and experience as much as you possibly can in relationship to whatever you are creating.  Give yourself some time to create the 3 pictures that you will be working with, then re-live each of these scenes right after you read your choice first thing when you get up and the last thing before you go to sleep.

It is absolutely amazing how effective this is, so be sure to follow through with this second step daily.  The third step is Acceptance, which we will get into next week.

And be sure to share this new knowledge with all the other people you care about by giving them the link for downloading the stress e book, which is www.unlimitedfutures.org/stressebook

You may also download a free introductory session of our Core Course by simply clicking in the box, on the side of each page on our web site, requesting it.

Until next week, enjoy your visualizing as we continue work with the process that will change your life.

 

 

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