Choices that Change Your Life

by Dr. Bobbie Stevens on March 19, 2012

We all make many choices everyday and the choices we make determine our future.  Have you ever thought about how different your life would be if you had made a particular choice differently?  Your choices do change your life, and you are the one who gets to make all of them and experience the consequence of the choices you make.

We each have the potential to be able to create the life we want for ourselves, but the condition of our nervous systems determines our ability to make good choices for ourselves.  If we do not have a very strong nervous system fear takes over our thinking and we make choices from fear rather than from a clear vision of what we want to create.

The only way we are able to create the life we want is to have a strong enough nervous system that we can clearly see in our minds eye what we want to create and be strong enough to override the fear and make choices that keep moving us in that direction.

It is fun to create visions of what we want, but in order to manifest that vision we have to overcome fear, make a commitment and follow through with the action step.

There are 7 steps in the creative process which are (1) Clarity about what you want (2) Visualization (3) Acceptance (4) Focus (5) Intuitive guidance (6) Action and (7) Manifestation.

When we are strong enough to work through these 7 steps the last one as you can see is manifestation.  This is how it works but few people even know what they want, and if you can get a certain amount of clarity, do you know what it would look like?

In order to get through # 3 acceptance you must be able to get past all of your beliefs in failure, and all the negative programming we all get about what we have to do, and how life works. Before we are able to accept our visions we have to be strong enough to overcome the scary thoughts about what might happen if we actually took the necessary steps to create our vision.

When we are in a state of fear we are afraid to let go of what we know and understand that if we hang on to where we are, we will never get to where we want to be.  We must let go of the old to make room for the new vision to manifest in our lives.  As long as we hang on to the old we cannot move forward.  Change is inevitable in creating something new.

This is why there are two parts to the Unlimited Futures programs.  There is not only a how to create what you want, but there is also a process that, when practiced on a daily basis over time, brings you into a whole new level of understanding and functioning that makes it possible for you to actually create the life you want.

I would like to share with you parts of an e mail I received over the week-end from a man who is now working with our Core Course on DVDs.  This is what he said,

“Due to my previous job’s crazy schedule I had stalled in the early stages of the course. Only once I took a leap of faith and quit the technically ‘best’ job that I have ever had, did everything open up and provide me not only with the time to do the course but a vastly better job and the perfect partner to do the course with.”

This is typical of what happens when we get in line with our purpose and are strong enough to move toward our visions regardless of the fear I am sure he felt when he quit the job that was getting in his way of doing what he was committed to do.

I am not suggesting that you quit your job, I am just saying amazing things can happen when you start making the right choices for changing your life for the better.

I discovered a process many years ago that moved me into a much more advanced level of understanding and functioning and totally changed my life.  This is the reason and purpose for our company Unlimited Futures.  Over the years I have shared this process with thousands of others who have had similar experiences.

I have described it in detail in my book Unlimited Futures: How To Understand the Life You Have and Create the Life You Want. I have also created a CD, DVD and Companion Workbook to help you get started working with the process.

In addition we now have our Core Course on DVDs so you can experience this process with others on the DVD right in the comfort of your own home.  You may download a free introductory session of this course by simply clicking in the box requesting it on the side of any page on our web site.

Once you start experiencing this growth process, we also provide courses you can attend to accelerate this natural evolutionary process.


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