Self-Help, Success and Happiness

by Dr. Bobbie Stevens on October 25, 2010

Last week I received a letter from a woman who told me that she has been a student of self-improvement for over twenty years, and has tried many courses and spiritual/growth practices that simply did not deliver what they promised.  She keeps doing her best, yet through it all her life still feels and looks empty.

She said, “I consider myself to be an intelligent, capable, compassionate woman, who loves people. I give my best in all that I do, and have always endeavored to help and support others.”  She told me that she has never been without work in her adult life, except for a couple of layoffs over the past several years but with them she always landed on her feet.  She has now been out of work for two years.  She has done everything she could think of find a job, she even tried starting her own business, but this time nothing is working.

She sent me this letter because she received an e mail from me talking about the wonderful things that have happened for a couple who have been working with the Unlimited Futures Core Course for about 7 months now.  She also got e mails from several other places telling her about the value of their programs. She is confused and frustrated.

It occurred to me that there are probably many people who can relate to her experience and are also going through a time of confusion and frustration.  So, I want to try to help if I can.

I answered her letter and explained that one of the big problems is that all of us working in the self-help field use the same words to talk about very different things. So, naturally it is very difficult for people to have any understanding of what is being offered.

The Unlimited Futures process releases the stress that gets built up in our nervous systems, and through that process it refines the energy in the mind/body system which automatically moves one into a much more advanced level of functioning.  Through this process you automatically become more capable.  It actually develops your ability to see and understand what to do and gives you the ability to do it.  No amount of information can do this for you.

The UF Core Course is about developing high level wellness.  It develops a state of health that few people have ever experienced.  Therefore it is very difficult to explain.

My experience with all other self-help programs is that they simply teach you things to do to create a better life, but they do not in any way develop abilities that you are unaware that you have.  They are simply improving on things that we are all familiar with.  They just give you more information, but lack of information is not the problem.

Things that one experiences through participation in the Unlimited Futures Core Course is an increase in energy, clarity of mind, inner peace and a whole new way of knowing or seeing possibilities.  What it does is develop the potential that you have within yourself that lies dormant until you discover how to activate it.  It is a new experience, something that you have never experienced before.  Therefore it is very difficult to explain, because with a whole new experience there is no way to relate to it.  One can only experience it.

Hopefully it will help to understand that the whole world is going through a major shift of consciousness.  It will affect every aspect of our lives, and our lives will never be the same again.  We are usually trying to get back to ‘normal’, that is to experience what we had in the past when we were comfortable.

There will be a new “normal”, a new world of experience which will be far beyond anything we have ever experienced in the past.  It will look and feel very different than anything we have ever known before.

This shift is coming about through individuals discovering this new world within themselves.  And because we are all connected, as each person moves into these higher levels of consciousness, it will affect all of us to some degree.  Over time we will create a whole new world that is far superior to anything that has ever experienced before.

Unlimited Futures Core course is giving you the tools to discover this higher level of consciousness and more advanced way of functioning within yourself.  We have been an outer directed society, and what we are discovering is that what has worked in the past doesn’t work anymore.  We will discover that life doesn’t work the way we thought it did.  We will discover that all the power is within ourselves.  We have simply been looking in the wrong direction for self-help, success and happiness.

The one thing I know for sure is that there is no magic bullet, or quick fix.  What we are experiencing is evolution, moving us all in a different direction.  And the only way I know to get there as quickly as possible is through a total commitment to a daily practice for releasing stress and refining the energy in the mind/body system.  It requires commitment and discipline. There is a tendency to resist because we are moving into unfamiliar territory, but that will only slow your growth, and delay your ability to experience this wonderful new world.

Are you at a point in your life where you are ready to experience something new?

I have described the Unlimited Futures process in detail and provided diagrams and step-by-step guidelines in my book Unlimited Futures: How to Understand the Life You Have and Create the Life You Want. I have also created a CD, DVD and a Companion Workbook to help you get started.  You may also download a free introductory session of our Personal Growth and Development Core Course.

Once you start experiencing this growth process, we also provide in-residence courses that you can attend to accelerate this natural evolutionary process.

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